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Yeah; I just can't stress enough that it really sounds like you and your H need to re-evaluate this situation if it is getting to you. Spending less time with his family doesn't mean you don't care f… (View Post)

No way; that is not ok. He needs to realize that it's not just that you can't spend so much time with her, it's that you and H are a family unit now and he can't be spending most of his time with hi… (View Post)

This x1000. I'm so glad you are putting your foot down. His expectations are seriously ridiculous and I wouldn't stand for a family member trying to bully me into spending so much money on their wed… (View Post)

She sounds manipulative. Make it clear that you are not accepting her money (and don't let her guilt-trip you into accepting; tell her you're taking care of it yourself with your FI), and then plan i… (View Post)

Please do not do this. Not every guest will necessarily agree with the charity you want to support. If you want to make a donation, do so, but don't do so in your guests' names or in association with… (View Post)